I really love hot, brown sacks of spicy nuts. Truly, I do. Especially if they've been soaking long enough to get nice and tender...the nuts, that is, not the sack.
Today, after bringing our car home from the repair shop (an engine mount was coming dislodged), I stopped at Maria's Nut House (formerly Dixie Nut House) and picked up one of their $8 bags of Cajun Boiled Peanuts. Honestly, there is nothing better on this planet, in Southern Roadside Cuisine, than good boiled peanuts. As I was polishing off a pile of these on the way home I noticed a white car behind me a ways that might have been a police car...and I thought, "Oh, might be a cop car, better not toss these shells out the window." Then, I started thinking about it - is it littering if the items you're littering are biodegradable and came from the earth in the first place? I frown on littering of things that don't belong to the earth, but peanut shells clearly started out there and I'm just returning them to...the pavement - where they should get pulverized into something that gets carried off into the sides of the road and goes back into the earth, right? Right. Well, in my mind that's correct...I wonder, though.
I wondered this same thing as I drove over a banana peel about 5 miles later...and, then promptly started wondering how a banana peel ended up in the middle of a highway (Hwy - 2 lane road you can go 60+ on out in the boonies)...and, of course, it had to have been left by someone like me, but you could argue that peanut shells are more natural to the area of the country we're in. I don't know anyone up here that has banana trees growing nearby (of course...I don't know anyone that grows peanuts, either).
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On the way to the "City" that we took our car to get repaired at, to get breakfast and then check on the car, C declared to me "I want a horsey!" This was, of course, after seeing the field of beautiful horses we always pass when on our way to this "City". The rest of the conversation went very much like this:
Me: "I want a horsey too! Let's go get one and put it in the back of the van!" (that we were driving at the time, mind you)
C: ::gives me look like I'm absolutely insane for thinking I could fit a horse in the back of a 1997 mini-van::
Me: "Well...we could probably fit a miniature horse in the back!"
C: "They poop a lot."
Me: "They do, huh?"
C: "Yes, that's why they're so small!"
Me: "Ohhhhhh really?"
C: "Yes, it's a proven scientific fact that miniature horses poop a lot, that's why they're so small...they're always pooping."
Me: "So, you're saying that because they're tiny they poop a lot, so big horses don't poop as much because if they did then they'd be tiny, too, right?"
C: "Yes, exactly."
Me: "So, that means that midgets must be small because they poop a lot???"
C: "Yes! In fact, midgets poop so much I've heard that a lot of them have to wear Depends because they're constantly dropping loads all over the place and can't control it."
Me: "I see...so I'm big because I don't poop a lot? (Even though some would argue I technically do)"
C: "Yep!"
-AA, over and out.
Showing posts with label Florida. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Florida. Show all posts
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Rain...
For some listening enjoyment, for a few minutes...nice background music on the topic.
It's raining today - this is the second day in a row we've gotten a little bit of rain. That is a small miracle. I was beginning to think I was transported to Arizona with humidity there, for awhile - everything has to be watered when it's like this (if you want it to NOT die, that is, including yourself). It's nice, refreshing to have a little rain.
The area we live in keeps our car almost white with dust. Our street gets grated every month or two. It's very quiet out here when it rains...I like that. Rain stops the 4-wheelers in their tracks. The critters (squirrels, birds) are so happy it's raining they are staying out in it to forage.
This song, it reminds me of the solitude I'd feel in the cold rain in Oregon. It's nice I can get that feeling back every once in awhile, almost on command. This band, Concrete Blonde, is truly an all time favorite...and, they invoke a lot of memories for me.
-AA
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Cat had my tongue, for a few minutes...
I have a lot of things buzzing around in my head today, but none of them really seem to want to take to the page, so to speak. Well, at least that's what I think - we'll see what comes of this piece, today.
I was sitting around, playing Bejeweled 3, because I have a hand injury and I'm not supposed to be doing a whole lot right now due to a surgery I had a week ago. So, I'm typing a lot? Ya, that's about right. I seem to be thinking a lot while playing that mindless game - it's kind of calming. Could it possibly be that a simple computer game has been giving me Zen-like peace of mind, or allowing me to think about things in the past and rectify, resolve and relive some things? Maybe...or, it could be the fact that I've been given a gift of almost a week off from thinking, eating, living, breathing my business.
Don't get me wrong, I'm still actively involved in what's going on, I mean how could I not be with it in my house? But, I'm not being allowed to do a lot of the work I usually do because of the stitches and such - and needing to keep my hand elevated for 80% of the day, etc., etc. It's actually been rather, surprisingly, nice. I feel like I'm decompressing for the first time in years. I'm incredibly blessed to be with an amazing woman who can step up to the plate and handle things...and I hope she realizes this (and I do tell her).
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Today, I learned, once more and even more so than before, that while I may be my mother's child, I truly didn't know who she was. Her layers were more hidden than mine - at least with me if you dig a little, or even just ask you might learn something about me...but, with her, she was like Fort Knox.
My mother passed away on February 15th of this year in her mid-60's. For the past few years she's been loopier than usual, but most of what she said, up until the middle of last year, you could actually accept as probably true (based on how she conceived the truth, that is). She told me, before this time, that the only reason they moved to Florida from Oregon is because of my father, and because HE wanted to see me more often, and that it was really, quite frankly, pissing him off that he never saw me and I never came over. I found that a bit hard to believe, and figured there was more to it than that, but just kind of shrugged it off like so many other random things she's told me in the past that didn't quite make sense...keeping it in my back pocket for the future, should I need it.
Today, my father stopped by. We were talking about the horrid weather we're having here and how he wished he were still in Oregon. He then informed me the only reason they moved to Florida was because my mother was convinced she would, "never see her again" and "then she started crying, so we moved." I told dad what mom said, and his reply was, "well, I'm glad she told you because I had no clue that's how I felt!"
...yet again, another shining example of my mother having her own little secrets from people. She didn't want anyone to know her - and I think that is because she was afraid if you did know her you could use it against her. In fact, I'm fairly certain that is the issue (or, was the issue, I suppose). My uncle is "an asshole", and he "used things against" my mom to make her feel "like shit" (her words about him, exactly). I agree, he is an asshole, but he tries, sort of, to be decent and nice. Mom was overly sensitive, and always had been, and anything that wasn't in her mind benefiting her in some way was obviously against her. That included her husband, her child, even her cats. She used to cry when she'd be upset about something (either something I did or my father yelling at her about something) and repeat over and over, "everything is my fault...the whole world is my fault...everything that happens is all my fault!" I'm amazed she lasted as long as she did with that attitude...yet, if you saw her out, saw her at church, saw her socially she was great! Her friends loved her, and I found out, upon her dying, just how much everyone really, truly appreciated her as a person. It made me feel good to know that people cared that much about her, but I wish she could have opened up a bit and given some of that back to me, her kid, instead of hiding it all these years.
Of course...my mother told me once that it was my fault that our relationship was as it was. First, it was obvious it was my fault (without her telling me this) because I was no longer in the religion (or any) that I was raised in and was living a life of sin. But...she told me in her own words that when I was about 13 I told her to just "leave me alone" and she informed me that when I told her that, she decided to do just that, and left me alone. She said she assumed I didn't want to have anything to do with her anymore, so that was that.
...ummm ...leave her alone ...I was only 13 years old! ...so, that's why, after almost 30 years I still didn't know my mother. But, I knew enough to send her a program from when I moved to Florida and was listed in a Writers Night as a reader of some original poetry with a note that said, "now you can finally be proud of me." Ya, I knew enough to send her that...and, she knew enough to tuck it away in a drawer, and dad knew enough to bring it over to me a couple of weeks ago. I guess in the end, even though I didn't know her, she was proud of me in her own, simple way.
-AA
I was sitting around, playing Bejeweled 3, because I have a hand injury and I'm not supposed to be doing a whole lot right now due to a surgery I had a week ago. So, I'm typing a lot? Ya, that's about right. I seem to be thinking a lot while playing that mindless game - it's kind of calming. Could it possibly be that a simple computer game has been giving me Zen-like peace of mind, or allowing me to think about things in the past and rectify, resolve and relive some things? Maybe...or, it could be the fact that I've been given a gift of almost a week off from thinking, eating, living, breathing my business.
Don't get me wrong, I'm still actively involved in what's going on, I mean how could I not be with it in my house? But, I'm not being allowed to do a lot of the work I usually do because of the stitches and such - and needing to keep my hand elevated for 80% of the day, etc., etc. It's actually been rather, surprisingly, nice. I feel like I'm decompressing for the first time in years. I'm incredibly blessed to be with an amazing woman who can step up to the plate and handle things...and I hope she realizes this (and I do tell her).
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Today, I learned, once more and even more so than before, that while I may be my mother's child, I truly didn't know who she was. Her layers were more hidden than mine - at least with me if you dig a little, or even just ask you might learn something about me...but, with her, she was like Fort Knox.
My mother passed away on February 15th of this year in her mid-60's. For the past few years she's been loopier than usual, but most of what she said, up until the middle of last year, you could actually accept as probably true (based on how she conceived the truth, that is). She told me, before this time, that the only reason they moved to Florida from Oregon is because of my father, and because HE wanted to see me more often, and that it was really, quite frankly, pissing him off that he never saw me and I never came over. I found that a bit hard to believe, and figured there was more to it than that, but just kind of shrugged it off like so many other random things she's told me in the past that didn't quite make sense...keeping it in my back pocket for the future, should I need it.
Today, my father stopped by. We were talking about the horrid weather we're having here and how he wished he were still in Oregon. He then informed me the only reason they moved to Florida was because my mother was convinced she would, "never see her again" and "then she started crying, so we moved." I told dad what mom said, and his reply was, "well, I'm glad she told you because I had no clue that's how I felt!"
...yet again, another shining example of my mother having her own little secrets from people. She didn't want anyone to know her - and I think that is because she was afraid if you did know her you could use it against her. In fact, I'm fairly certain that is the issue (or, was the issue, I suppose). My uncle is "an asshole", and he "used things against" my mom to make her feel "like shit" (her words about him, exactly). I agree, he is an asshole, but he tries, sort of, to be decent and nice. Mom was overly sensitive, and always had been, and anything that wasn't in her mind benefiting her in some way was obviously against her. That included her husband, her child, even her cats. She used to cry when she'd be upset about something (either something I did or my father yelling at her about something) and repeat over and over, "everything is my fault...the whole world is my fault...everything that happens is all my fault!" I'm amazed she lasted as long as she did with that attitude...yet, if you saw her out, saw her at church, saw her socially she was great! Her friends loved her, and I found out, upon her dying, just how much everyone really, truly appreciated her as a person. It made me feel good to know that people cared that much about her, but I wish she could have opened up a bit and given some of that back to me, her kid, instead of hiding it all these years.
Of course...my mother told me once that it was my fault that our relationship was as it was. First, it was obvious it was my fault (without her telling me this) because I was no longer in the religion (or any) that I was raised in and was living a life of sin. But...she told me in her own words that when I was about 13 I told her to just "leave me alone" and she informed me that when I told her that, she decided to do just that, and left me alone. She said she assumed I didn't want to have anything to do with her anymore, so that was that.
...ummm ...leave her alone ...I was only 13 years old! ...so, that's why, after almost 30 years I still didn't know my mother. But, I knew enough to send her a program from when I moved to Florida and was listed in a Writers Night as a reader of some original poetry with a note that said, "now you can finally be proud of me." Ya, I knew enough to send her that...and, she knew enough to tuck it away in a drawer, and dad knew enough to bring it over to me a couple of weeks ago. I guess in the end, even though I didn't know her, she was proud of me in her own, simple way.
-AA
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
...past, present - reset?
Once upon a time...isn't that how all good fables go? I was once "I am a writer, therefore I write", to the point of having it engraved on a watch...that I carried with me...because I was. I guess in some respects it reminded me that while I always had time, I also always wrote.
On a plane trip back from San Diego to Portland I wrote over 13 pieces, in a row, about my experience there. I say "over 13" as I know it was at least this many, but forget the total amount.
I've got quite a book of what I "used to do"...and now, what do I do? I write a lot, in my head. I'm still trying to find my mojo, or what was, I guess. I'm not sure of what I still have and what has been lost over the years, but one thing is for sure - I'm going to keep writing for myself and keep at it because I feel I need to.
One week ago I was ready to toss it ALL in...everything, just give it up. Now? I feel a lot better...I feel cleaner, calmer, more ready to face each day. Could be partially from having a mass amount of time off due to a finger injury (and yet, I'm still typing), and another aspect I'd reasonably argue with anyone is that it's because I'm allowing all this built up sludge to finally, slowly ease on out.
Things are good in the world when you are allowed to express yourself - when YOU allow yourself to express what it is you need to.
Tectonic plate movement is something we all experience within ourselves. Little earthquakes come and go inside, and they warn of an impending larger shift - that's what I'm feeling. I'm okay with that...it's the acceptance of that which keeps us moving forward, always looking for safer land.
To be honest, one of the major reasons I left my home state of Oregon was to get away from just that. The constant tremors I was feeling...in my life, and the ones I knew were coming. Waking up to a small 5.3 in Oregon, compared to sleeping through one similar in Los Angeles really made me realize this even more - and at the time, over 17 years ago, I decided that I could live with hurricanes more easily because I could plan for a hurricane - you can't plan for earthquakes. Yet, I will also admit that those earthquakes are what kept me hungry, wanting, singing, feeling. I've been stifling that for a bit too long, I'm afraid, and now I'm ready for it.
Bring it on, world. I've had my fill of pain in the last couple of years, and I think I'm finally ready to accept the fact that it's something I've had to face. Reality is here, and I'm listening. Ya, it's about damn time.
-AA
On a plane trip back from San Diego to Portland I wrote over 13 pieces, in a row, about my experience there. I say "over 13" as I know it was at least this many, but forget the total amount.
I've got quite a book of what I "used to do"...and now, what do I do? I write a lot, in my head. I'm still trying to find my mojo, or what was, I guess. I'm not sure of what I still have and what has been lost over the years, but one thing is for sure - I'm going to keep writing for myself and keep at it because I feel I need to.
One week ago I was ready to toss it ALL in...everything, just give it up. Now? I feel a lot better...I feel cleaner, calmer, more ready to face each day. Could be partially from having a mass amount of time off due to a finger injury (and yet, I'm still typing), and another aspect I'd reasonably argue with anyone is that it's because I'm allowing all this built up sludge to finally, slowly ease on out.
Things are good in the world when you are allowed to express yourself - when YOU allow yourself to express what it is you need to.
Tectonic plate movement is something we all experience within ourselves. Little earthquakes come and go inside, and they warn of an impending larger shift - that's what I'm feeling. I'm okay with that...it's the acceptance of that which keeps us moving forward, always looking for safer land.
To be honest, one of the major reasons I left my home state of Oregon was to get away from just that. The constant tremors I was feeling...in my life, and the ones I knew were coming. Waking up to a small 5.3 in Oregon, compared to sleeping through one similar in Los Angeles really made me realize this even more - and at the time, over 17 years ago, I decided that I could live with hurricanes more easily because I could plan for a hurricane - you can't plan for earthquakes. Yet, I will also admit that those earthquakes are what kept me hungry, wanting, singing, feeling. I've been stifling that for a bit too long, I'm afraid, and now I'm ready for it.
Bring it on, world. I've had my fill of pain in the last couple of years, and I think I'm finally ready to accept the fact that it's something I've had to face. Reality is here, and I'm listening. Ya, it's about damn time.
-AA
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